Is it my fault that my child is multiply disabled? |
No!It is not your or your husband's fault
that your child is multiply disabled. Neither does it have anything to
do with bad spirits. There are children all over the world who are multiply
disabled and usually there are medical reasons to explain why a child has
multiple disabilities. |
Is there a cure for my child's disabilities? |
NO, there is no cure for your child's disabilities.
If there are any pills or operations that might help your child, then your
doctor will tell you. But on the whole, it is more important for you
to try to accept your child's difficulties, rather than searching for a
cure for them. |
Are my child's disabilities contagious? |
NO, your child's disabilities are not
contagious. They cannot be passed from one person to another. So you can
encourage people to mix freely with your child. |
Who can help our child? |
Your local rehabilitation workers can give
you ideas on how help your child. But- more important than that-it is you,
with the support of your family and community who can do most to help your
child. You,the parents, are the most imprtant people. |
Will my child be able to care for himself? |
Most children with multiple disabilities may
be unable to care for themselves. Their difficulties with muscle
movement and with learning, as well as their other disabilties, mean that
they may need help with washing, dressing and feeding. |
Will my child be able to learn? |
All children with multiple disabilties are
different, but most will have great difficulties with muscle movement and
with learning, as well as their other disabilities, mean that they will
always need help with washing, dressing and feeding. |
Will my child be able to learn? |
All children with multiple disablities are
different, but most will have great difficulties with learning and may
never learn skills that other children acquire. It is important for us
to find out what the child can do, so that we can use this as a basis
from which to help him learn. He will learn more slowly and in smaller
steps thatn other children. |
Will my child ever talk? |
No, it is likely that your child will
not learn to talk, but he will be able to learn to communicate in other
ways, for example, through sounds, movements and facial expression. Children
with multiple disabilities need a lot of help and attention to learn how
to communicate and we need to adapt our communication to help them. |
Are there schools
for children like mine? |
Yes there are- but there are very few and
it is difficult for a child to get a place. The best opportunity for a
child to learn is in his own home and the best teachers are his parents.
It is they who can care for and help their child most. |